10 Ways To Know You Are A Side Chick

Are you dating that special someone? And you are not sure if you are the side chick or the main girl?

Here are 10 Signs He Thinks You Are A Side Chick


1. You Are His Pre or Post Birthday and Holidays date.

 You asked him "what are you doing on valentine's day" and he hits you with "I will rather stay at home, but we can go on a date on 13th". Be wise! Feb 13, is side chicks day.

2. You Never Met Any Member Of His Family

 "Meeting his family" is believed to be a step toward commitment, but he is not ready to see you become friends with his family, after all you are only a stress reliever.

3. You Don't Know Where He Lives

You have probably tried to convince him to take you to his house, but he refused. Don't blame him, he is only trying to stick to the player commandment; "You don’t take a side chick home". A side chick is only to be visited in her own house or taken on trips outside the state.

4. He Is Always Too Busy

No guy is too busy for the woman he truly wants. If he likes you, he will carve out time for you in his schedule. Men are generous with time, but when his time become too important to him, then you are not good enough for him.

5. Your Chats Are Always Short And Sexy

He doesn't love you, and he will probably never love you. You are simply a spare tyre, there is no need to have an intimate conversation with you. His messages mostly reads:

* I’m so hot thinking about you
* I wish I could lick you all over
*I love when you touch me
*You make me horny every time I see you
*Guess what I’m wearing… etc

6. He Never Calls To Cancel An Appointment, He Simply Fails to Show Up

He probably remembers he had an appointment with you, perhaps he really wants to show up, but the main girl paid a surprise visit. He was so excited that he forgot about you.

7. He Is Always Making Private Phone Calls

He has a sister or cousin that always calls him, he always have to excuse himself to receive the calls.

Free yourself.

8. He Doesn't Want To Be Seen With You

His whole crew (family and friends) already know his main girl. You mean nothing to him, he is not proud to show you off in public, you are only good enough to satisfy his bedroom-needs.

9. He Avoids The Real Talk

You asked him to define your relationship, but he keeps avoiding the discussion. He thinks you should just enjoy the ride.

10. He is extremely secretive

Remember you are the spare tire, he doesn't plan on keeping you around for long. His secrets are not safe with you